I’m glad my last letter hit home for so many of you! I’ve been loving the back-and-forth in the comments — it’s such a relief to know I’m not alone in this.
I do want to clarify something: there’s absolutely no “right” number of items to own. It’s so personal, and only you can determine what works for your actual life. While 144 pieces it isn’t objectively huge, the moment I realized how much further I had to go felt genuinely overwhelming. I love most of what’s in my closet, but I’m increasingly craving the idea of owning less.
More to come on my wardrobe indexing revelations in upcoming letters.
You know how sometimes things just fall into place and click perfectly? That’s exactly what happened when
reached out Wednesday evening. We jumped on a call Friday morning, and somehow I’m now partnering with for this closet drop series. It’s honestly kismet.If you live for the designer secondhand hunt or consider yourself a certified pre-loved shopping pro, Future Reference needs to be on your radar. Picture having your items listed across every major platform — Poshmark, Vestiaire, eBay, Depop, Vinted, Mercari, Rowely — with a single click. They’ve automated the entire resale process, handling everything from listing and optimization to buyer management and negotiations. Brilliant, right?
Below, paid subscribers get 72-hour exclusive access to the first drop in my
closet at special subscriber pricing. After that, these pieces open up to everyone and get cross-listed on other resale platforms.The first drop includes…
Juju Vera Petra shell tassel necklace ($333)
Khaite Abigail stretch jeans in black, size 28 ($222)
Khaite Julius belt, size 85 ($222)
Khaite Remi suede shoulder bag ($555)
Khaite Nathan satin blazer, size 4 ($555)
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